Topic: Mental Health

Transforming Anxiety with Chinese Medicine

transforming anxiety with Chinese medicine

Anxiety can be such so insidious. You can feel fine and then you’re hijacked by these paralysing and overwhelming feelings.

You can start to feel like you’re separating from your body, detaching from reality. A veil seems to descend between you and the world. Your mind and heart no longer feel safe and grounded.

You might even feel like you’re going to have a heart attack, pass out or die.

You develop a whole system of checks and balances nuanced to your particular flavour of control, all to avoid being triggered.

You become afraid of your anxiety returning and this creates a type of cage that you comfortably inhabit, because however restrictive, you deem it better than that anxious feeling. And this can work – it does keep things manageable – but sometimes you get stuck there and think it’s a forever thing.

But how to open the door? How to step out of the cage?


Treating anxiety with Chinese Medicine

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Anxiety and Chinese Medicine – An Alternative Approach

Chinese medicine offers some perspectives for easing anxiety that you may not have heard or experienced before.


The Root Causes of Anxiety in Chinese Medicine

Anxiety can have a lot of different root causes.

Chinese medicine is always seeking to address pathology at its root. When an issue is rectified at the root or causative level, innate processes within you take over. These are the processes that promote vitality, growth, repair and homeostatic balance.

Symptom management of anxiety can be great and Chinese medicine can be wonderful for easing anxiety symptoms. But it’s addressing the root cause that distinguishes holistic treatment from other ways of treating anxiety.


Diagnosing Anxiety with Chinese Medicine

A Chinese medicine diagnosis for someone experiencing anxiety could be:

  • Your ‘Spirit’ is disturbed
  • Your ‘Blood’ is deficient
  • You’ve got ‘Phlegm’ misting your Mind
  • You’re ‘Damp’
  • You’ve got stagnant Qi
  • You’ve got too much heat in the ‘Heart’
  • You have ‘Kidney’ and ‘Liver’ Yin deficiency.

The list goes on. Even though that list may sound simplistic and kind of neolithic, each of those diagnostic patterns is incredibly specific and nuanced to treat the different ways that anxiety shows up in a person.

For example, during attacks of anxiety do you get palpitations and hot flushes? Or IBS symptoms? Insomnia?

Symptoms of anxiety vary dramatically. That’s the beauty and the art of the Chinese medical model, which can be tailored to you to treat you with very specific therapeutics.


What are the Different Types of Anxiety?

Different kinds of anxiety include:

Generalised Anxiety Disorder – Constant tension and worry about everyday life activities, lasting for many months or years. Sufferers usually anticipate the worst even though there is little reason to expect this. Generalised anxiety disorder is often accompanied by physical symptoms like trembling, muscle tension, nausea, fatigue and headaches.

Panic Disorder – Intense fear that strikes repeatedly and usually without warning. Symptoms include shortness of breath, chest tightness, heart palpitations, dizziness and disorientation.

Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder – Repeated, unwanted thoughts or compulsive behaviours that seem impossible to stop or control.

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder – Persistent symptoms that occur after experiencing or witnessing a traumatic event. Symptoms include nightmares, flashbacks, numbing of emotions, depression, anger, irritability and being easily startled.

Phobias – Extreme, disabling, and irrational fear of something that often poses little or no actual danger. The fear leads to avoidance of objects or situations and can cause people to limit their lives unnecessarily.


Eastern and Western Anxiety Treatment Approaches

In Chinese medicine there is no separation between the physical and mental/emotional self. When one suffers, eventually so will the other.

Because of this mental/physical interdependence, an external emotional cause of anxiety, such as a traumatic event or an abusive childhood, will eventually lead to a decline in physical health.

Conversely, anxiety may be generated internally as a result of a purely physical imbalance. Often there is a complex interplay of both.

Either way, the physical pathology needs to be addressed. This is where acupuncture and Chinese herbal medicine excel.

If the anxiety originated from an external cause, whether in the past or continuing into the present, it is recommended that you, additionally, seek out psychological therapy.


Recommended Resources for Reducing Anxiety – Melbourne, Victoria

A Space – An awesome local meditation studio, running classes and workshops.

The Mind Room – An awesome local psychology practice that runs all sorts of classes and workshops.

Pete Coles – A very talented transpersonal therapist who specialises in transforming anxiety.


Psychological Treatment for Anxiety

If your anxiety does not stem from an identifiable external cause, psychological therapy is still a very useful tool in helping you manage symptoms whilst the Chinese medical treatment is working to correct the physical imbalance.

Aside from psychotherapy, the other modern medical treatments are drug therapies. Antidepressants and benzodiazepines (often referred to as sedatives) are the most common ones.


Anxiety Medication – Pros and Cons

Benzodiazepines, due to their addictive nature, are usually kept for short-term use in acute situations, or perhaps during more severe flare-ups. Some types of antidepressants can help people to manage their anxiety, and they are generally considered safer for long-term use.

There is a definite time and place for such drug therapies. They are relatively fast acting, and bring some much appreciated relief to a lot of people. However, they are not for everyone.

Some people don’t like the way they feel on medication, especially if your anxiety is arising from a physical cause. These medications can hard for the body to process and can exacerbate a physical imbalance or create new one in another meridian/organ system.

Some people are troubled by side-effects of anti-anxiety medications such as digestive disturbances, weight gain, emotional numbing.

People with lower levels of anxiety might struggle to justify constant medication. Furthermore, sometimes this type of medication treatment is symptom management rather than targeting resolution of the root cause of the anxiety.

From my clinical experience, I’ve observed that anxiety can sometimes arise from mismanaged emotional expression. Often, a pharmaceutical + cognitive approach doesn’t address or resolve anxiety arising from emotional origin.

Reduce anxiety with Chinese medicine

Understanding and Befriending Your Anxiety

You can transform your anxiety. If you are conscious of what’s happening, with some practice, mindset training and knowledge, you can develop strong resilience to the effects of anxiety.

Use some of these suggestions for managing your anxiety:


  1. Know when to address your anxiety.

When you’re in a full-blown anxiety or panic attack, that is not the time to address it. When anxiety has risen to that level then you are in survival mode and you just need to get through it.

You’ll want to start addressing your anxiety when you’re in a place where you feel safe, grounded and in a relaxed state.

It’s going to be uncomfortable. Transforming anxiety often involves really getting to know what the anxiety is for you and being in the experience of it.


  1. Let your anxiety in.

So, most people understandably want to get rid of their anxiety. For good reason – it can be incredibly unpleasant and disabling.

Yet, this rejection of the experience can compound your fear of it and add to the narrative that is already going on. The fear breeds more fear, making the whole thing more tangled and dramatic.

What if you welcomed it in like an old friend. Oh hi, it’s you again, what are you trying to tell me today?


  1. Give your anxiety an outlet.

Take some time to consider what is the narrative of your anxiety. What’s the story?

Write it out. Draw it out. Record it in a voice memo. Talk to a good friend or therapist about it.

Think about:

How does this anxiety affect your life?

How does this anxiety serve or protect you?

What’s the benefit of experiencing this anxiety?


  1. Feel the anxiety in your body.

Are you tired? Are you thirsty? Are you angry? Are you afraid?

Discerning the message of your anxiety will give you a greater ability to respond to your own needs and self-regulate your uncomfortable feelings.


Transforming Anxiety with Chinese Medicine and Calming Techniques

Why is it useful to feel anxiety in your body?

Anxiety is contractive by nature. Before you feel tension arising in your mind, somewhere in your body will tighten.

Catching tension in your body and consciously making an effort to relax will help calm your mind. Can you lean into this feeling?

Once you can identify the tight or unsettled places in your body where the anxiety has settled in, try the following techniques to self-soothe and encourage calm:


  1. Use the breath.

The breath is the most effective way to soothe your nervous system.

Inhale, then take a longer exhale than your inhale. This will calm the fight-or-flight response that is hurtling you towards fear. It’s called the ‘Vagal brake’.


Relaxation for Anxiety

If you are starting to freak out, try this relaxation technique:

  • Find somewhere comfortable to sit.
  • Sit in an erect posture and bring your chest forward, allowing your shoulders to fall back.
  • Relax your gaze and rest your hands on your lap.
  • Breathe with your abdomen, allowing your belly to expand on inhalation and contract on expiration.
  • Inhale through your nose for a count of four.
  • Exhale through your nose for a count of six.
  • Repeat this process six times.

You have just slowed your respiratory rate to six breaths per minute and emphasised your exhalations.

Adults breathe at an average of 15 breaths per minute so this exercise asks you to reduce your basal rate by a little more than half.


  1. Address your core fears.

What are you afraid of?

The cave that you are afraid to enter holds the treasure that you seek.

Address your core fears. They may be existential or they may be very real. Fear can be the root of anxiety and identifying it can set you on your way to do some great work with a psychologist, counsellor, acupuncturist or loved one.

Mismanaged emotions can be a cause of anxiety in Chinese medicine – indeed, of many pathologies.

Chinese medicine doesn’t view emotions as either positive or negative. Rather, they consider all emotions (anger, fear, sadness, joy) as necessary and natural. Each has a specific pattern as to how it alters our physiology.

It’s not the experience of feeling emotions that is pathogenic. It is the avoidance, suppression, repression and denial of them that is the issue.\

Once you accept that you are feeling an emotion by letting it in and experiencing it, it changes, it integrates. If your mind becomes involved, telling you shouldn’t be feeling something or it denies you permission to feel it, this discord between body and mind happens.


  1. Move your body.

Your body is designed to move.

There is so much that we absorb that is non-verbal. Vibes, body language, our internal dialogue, our sub-conscious mind. This can all be reflected in our posture and how we feel in our body.

Some studies have shown that people who experience anxiety have a higher degree of muscle tension and pain. Long term, this leads to muscles becoming fatigued or inefficient.

Get out of your head, connect to sensation that is occurring in your body, and shake it out, shake it off, sweat, stretch, breathe, dance, strengthen. Movement is a path to feel centered, move stuck and constrictive feelings and get those endorphin levels up.


  1. Relax.

You want to reduce your anxiety? Relaxation is the only technology that will get you there.

To overcome anxiety, you need to relax. Anxiety is the antithesis of relaxation.

The nervous system is binary. It can only be in either fight of flight (sympathetic) mode or rest and digest / growth and repair (autonomic/parasympathetic) mode. When your nervous system is in ‘rest and digest’ mode, you’re not going to feel anxious.

The more often and deeply you relax and enter rest and digest mode, the harder it will be to elicit an anxious state.

If you suffer from anxiety, you need to start taking your relaxation seriously. Relaxation is different from rest, and is different from sleep. There is an art to it.

Consider acupuncture and Chinese medicine for anxiety. This holistic approach will help your body enter into the state it needs to heal and recover from anxiety.

If you want to learn more about coping with difficult emotions then please read the Experiencing Difficult Emotions blog.

Understand the nature of mind. We are not our thoughts, we are not our emotions. They are transient and changeable. You are not your anxiety. There are some great philosophies that reframe our mental and emotional experience. If you’d like to know more about this, please check out the Cultivating Spirit blog.

Acupuncture is a wonderful way to transform anxiety, whether the cause originated from an external event or an internal physiological imbalance. Book your acupuncture for anxiety appointment now.

Cultivating Spirit – The Shen or Heart-Mind in Chinese Medicine

Shen or Heart-Mind - cultivating spirit


“Life is transformation. There is no life that is not an unceasing transformation.”

– Élisabeth Rochat de la Vallée


It’s the final month of our Winter here in the Southern Hemisphere. As we approach Spring we get closer to emerging from our Yin state and the building of Yang will initiate.

Yang is light, activity, movement, initiation, action, the doing. On a metaphysical, spiritual and cosmological level the most Yang manifestation of a human, the purest Yang aspect of our consciousness, is the Spirit or ‘Shen’.

Shen is translated as something which is divine, marvellous, extraordinary or mysterious. In recent times we call it the Heart-Mind.


Separation, Suffering and the Shen: The Heart-Mind Journey


Shen or Heart-Mind is also translated as The Self, I, our presence. The Oneness of all that I am. It’s deep and primordial and connected to all that is, but is also just right there if you listen.

Shen or Heart-Mind is represented by the Chinese characters for the physical heart, plus something that descends from above and hits earth like lightening. From that, everything unfurls, is made manifest and expressed.

The inception of our Heart-Mind begins in childhood when awareness of ourselves as a separate being dawns. This is the original split from our ‘just being’ in the interconnected web of all life.

It is also the beginning of suffering.


The Taoists see our Shen or Heart-Mind journey as a path of self-awareness.


Our mission is to return to that state of inter-connectivity with all life through the integration of our understanding of who we are – our unique conscious awareness and expression.


Cultivating Spirit, Shen or Heart-Mind


So how do we embark on this journey into ourselves? You might be thinking, Do I need to become a Taoist to discover my oneness with all that is and ever was?



Cultivating Shen is not as esoteric as it sounds. Really it’s just two steps:

  1. Shen realisation: you realise you have Shen and that is your original awareness/identity.
  2. Once this realisation occurs, you actively cultivate Spirit.


Cultivating Spirit means that you consciously work toward nurturing your relationship to your Spirit/ Heart-Mind.


Rather than identifying with distracting and often undermining ideas of Self (ego, masks, personas, thoughts, emotions or conditioning), you let your presence, in which is rooted in and infused with your Shen, nourish you and the world around you.


Traditional Ways of Cultivating Spirit, Shen or Heart-Mind

Shen or Heart-Mind ritual

Traditional ways of cultivating Shen include:

  • Meditation
  • Breath work
  • Qi Gong
  • Tai Qi
  • Internal and external martial arts
  • Artistic pursuits (the art of tea, painting, dance, writing, Taoist sexual practice).


Shen or Heart-Mind and Acupuncture


On the acupuncture table, I ask you to listen and become receptive to your Heart-Mind because it knows what you need. It knows in the most perfect way for you, way more tailored to you than I could ever craft in my advice – if you’re prepared to accept its truth.

Acupuncture allows you to get out of your head – so influenced by your external world – drop the stories and the habitual patterns of reaction and assumption, and get into the sense of Breath, Body and Heart. This creates an order and harmony, a resonance.

These are the conditions in which nature thrives – your nature and the Big Nature, the ‘One’ (the interconnected web of unceasing transformations which organises the systems of life).

To become a spiritual person according to classical Chinese wisdom is to become fully who you are as a human. To accept your unique expression, drop what you’re not and be who you are. That’s it.


How Acupuncture Heals the Shen or Heart-Mind


When you are settled on the acupuncture table, you start breathing into your lower belly and come into the experience of how your body feels in that moment.

You breathe out and let go – of your day, the busy-ness, your stuff.


You now have the opportunity to drop not only the roles and responsibilities of the outside world, but also your ego.


You can relax the sense of your identity, the masks and personas you wear out there in the world. The acupuncture table is not a place where have to keep your ‘shit’ together.

I offer this safe space so that you can relax your efforts, soften, open and allow yourself to drop into a connected restful state whereby:

  • Qi can flow (very important for the efficacy of your acupuncture) and
  • You can come into resonance with your Spirit.


The Alchemical Process of Liberation

Shen or Heart-Mind is present in nature
Fully becoming who you are and realising your Spirit is referred to by Taoists as alchemy.

I like to call it the alchemical process of liberation.


We achieve this liberation through the avatar of the Heart-Mind, which comes to reside in the empty void in the centre of your chest and gets housed in your Blood.


Enveloped, protected and cocooned by the Pericardium (wrapping of the heart), this space is infinite potential, interconnection and unconditional love.

It is a very difficult place to keep open. But you can – with intention, practice, determination and by habitually letting go.

From that space your Shen can create order, clarify direction, provide inspiration.

The great ideas that spontaneously erupt, the a-ha moments. They come from that place.

This is why acupuncture can be so transformative. We access your Heart-Mind Spirit where it resides in your body.

The ancient Chinese relate it to the north star, Polaris – the still point around which the entire galaxy pivots. Just as in the Northern hemisphere they look to Polaris to discover true north, so we can look to the Yang light, space and impulse of the Heart-Mind to discover our direction in life.


I invite you to explore the feeling of deeply letting go in the safe space of the acupuncture table. Head here to book an appointment at Cloud Gate.


Experiencing Difficult Emotions (And How To Mine Them For Their Wisdom)

We all have trouble dealing with our emotions sometimes. Feelings that come up can have all sorts of stories attached to them. Stories we don’t like, feelings we don’t want to experience.

We hide what we feel, ignore it, feel shame and guilt about it, lie about it or blame other people for causing difficult emotions in us.

We also crave certain emotions that are considered positive: we want to grasp on to them, get addicted and attached to things, people and places which generate that emotional feeling.

This attachment to certain emotions can motivate our behaviour and make us feel out of control.

When it comes to emotions, perhaps we never really grew up.


Difficult Emotions and Chinese Medicine

Our feelings and thoughts have a somatic expression (a response in the body).

The Chinese mapped these body responses and attributed them channels. They also discovered which organs get affected by different emotions. Within a Chinese medicine framework, feelings are considered natural and necessary with their own unique wisdom, insight and character.

Emotions begin to be considered pathogenic (a cause of disharmony or illness) when the mind judges, controls, distorts, represses or suppresses these raw feelings. When the mind becomes involved in a controlling manner, it can stagnate the energetic momentum that contains the feeling.

This is why, when you start to move that blocked energetic momentum and relinquish mind control in practices such as acupuncture, massage, breath work or yoga, spontaneous emotional release can occur.

Our mind is heavily influenced by our conditioning – by our family, sub-culture and societal values. By our past experiences, by our associations.

We create defence mechanisms to get through, to avoid pain and to keep ourselves together psychologically. I call these mechanisms the gatekeepers or the bodyguards.  They are so important and they do great work… until they don’t.

We outgrow them, but we don’t update their job description and they start to cage us in and block healthy intimacy in relationships. That’s where the stagnation can really start to affect your health and happiness.


Emotional Stagnation

Emotional stagnation can lead to physical and mental ill health. It can keep you trapped and stunt your growth, maturity and intelligence.

The basis of emotional stagnation usually has to do with fear and control – fear of experiencing something that will overwhelm you and make you lose control.

The way to deal with that fear is to wake up to the very nature of emotion. 

That is, emotions are changeable. Often within milliseconds. The latin root of the word emotion means “to move”. Left to their own devices without interference by mind, emotions rapidly change.

It is the control, repression, suppression and stories we attach to emotions that causes them to stagnate or to identify with the story so much that the denial of our emotions becomes part of our personality.


How to Lose the Fear of Difficult Emotions

So how do we wake up and lose the fear?

1) Understand the nature of Mind

2) Understand the nature of feelings

The penny-dropping insight, the big A-ha, is realising that both Mind and emotion BY THEIR NATURE are impermanent, transient and are in a process of change. This means that mistakenly identifying them as fixed, permanent or part of yourself is fundamentally futile.

If you wake up to this reality, then you can really get to the root of what is causing you pain.

What allows our feelings to transform and continue on their merry (or raging) path is recognition or acknowledgement.


Not by someone outside of you. By your own heart.

If you are busily committed to avoiding or ignoring your emotional truth, it takes a whole lot of energy, effort and mind control.


Shen Realisation and Difficult Emotions

The Chinese called the cognitive part of our mind, the streams of consciousness, the planning, the thinking, the processing etc the Yi.

The part of our consciousness that is beyond Mind, the consciousness you’ve had since within the womb (my working title is the embryological mind), the consciousness or awareness that is there beyond the thoughts, in between the thoughts – they call that Shen.

Instead of bombarding you with concepts of Shen (for which there really are no words), the Chinese – being an insanely practical culture – focused on Shen realisation. They then developed methods for people to practice and guide them to Shen realisation.

Shen realisation is the mother of all insights (and a different blog post) and is what reorientates you on your path. Shen realisation is awareness of our most primary nature. It is what can really reframe our sense of identity and make it a whole lot easier to see the ‘stories’ we’ve created in regards to our emotions and our emotional blocks.

Shen realisation is the goal of treatments like acupuncture. It’s like the diamond or pure awareness hiding under the rough of all the misunderstandings of our self.

We all have diamond (pure awareness) and we all have rough (not pure awareness).

The degree and impact of the ‘rough’ is very individual – it’s very human stuff. Viewing yourself with gentle eyes and suspending judgements long enough to listen to your heart can lead to liberation and wisdom.


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Holding Space for Your Difficult Emotions

This is a practice. Holding space means setting an intention for your mind to suspend judgement of yourself and sit, listen and feel into your heart and your body and find your truth – regardless of whether what you find is unacceptable or contrary to your social values, regardless of whether you like it or not.

The steps below describe a really easy way to hold space for yourself and this is the way I like to do it.  You could do this just about anywhere, or use it as a regular practice. The acupuncture table is an optimal place for holding space for yourself.

  • I sit in meditation or lie down with one hand over my heart, the other on my belly.
  • I set my intention that for just this 20 minutes I will maintain concentration and suspend my usual judgements, stories, avoidance, clinging and all the rest and be kind to those disenfranchised parts of my self.
  • I visualise my self sitting in my heart, by a campfire wrapped in a blanket.
  • I listen and wait to see, hear or feel what appears. That which has been hiding, drowned out, unseen, not felt, denied. I wait gently for these parts of myself to reveal themselves.
  • I then relax my body, soften and acknowledge what shows up. My truth.
  • This is where the wisdom seeps in, the A-ha moments show up. Accepting what is my truth does set me free.
  • I then take rest in pure awareness knowing that all else is impermanent, by nature will change and to identify or hold onto it is futile.
  • I exhale and let go.


How do you release difficult emotions? Let us know in the comments.


To hold space for yourself using acupuncture as a healing tool, book an appointment at the Cloud Gate clinic today.



The 1 Thing We Need To Get To Make Change Easy.


New Year, New Resolutions. That old chestnut.

In so many ways, the conditions are ripe for it at this time. Often in Jan, we’ve taken a break, mixed up the routine, have satisfied our inner hedonist over Christmas and NYE in celebration over the last year & heralding in the new.  We spent all our money, took time off, ate lots of food, drank & more. (Or was that just me??) Afterwards we naturally feel a little austere, it’s quiet now, people are away, business can be slower, school is out. We have the space to contemplate. We may be pumped to start our new regime and that’s great, but why do most, even if they make a strong resolution, tend to not follow through with how they want to change and grow? Why do humans commonly do that? Why can’t we move forward in the ways we want? Why do we find it such an effort, too difficult & eventually give up?


The 1 Thing You Must Do This Winter

The Yin Bear

This weekend is Winter Solstice, which means it’s the longest darkest night of the year. We’ve hit that ultimate yin phase of the year, now is the time to make like the bear and hibernate. What to do when Game of Thrones is already over?

Seasonally winter is the time to take to ground and REST,conserve, build strength, save money. Therapeutically this is the time where it’s going to be the easiest to restore your adrenals, re-balance your stress and sex hormones. Repair what all that flight and fight has done to your system or as Takeshi says (pictured underneath) sharpen your sword.

A great easy way to do that is..